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Not giving a f*ck does not mean being indifferent; it means being comfortable with being different.
Not giving a fuck means taking care of yourself first



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The Subtle Art Of Not Giving a F*ck Quotes

Life is essentially an endless series of problems. The solution to one problem is merely the creation of another.

Problems may be inevitable, but the meaning of each problem is not. We get to control what our problems mean based on how we choose to think about them, the standard by which we choose to measure them.

Most of us struggle throughout our lives by giving too many f*cks in situations where f*cks do not deserve to be given.

This, in a nutshell, is what “self-improvement” is really about: prioritizing better values, choosing better things to give a f*ck about. Because when you give better f*cks, you get better problems. And when you get better problems, you get a better life.

A lot of people hesitate to take responsibility for their problems because they believe that to be responsible for your problems is to also be at fault for your problems.

Don’t just sit there. Do something. The answers will follow.

In my life, I have given a f*ck about many people and many things. I have also not given a f*ck about many people and many things. And like the road not taken, it was the f*cks not given that made all the difference.


True happiness occurs only when you find the problems you enjoy having and enjoy solving.

You are already choosing, in every moment of every day, what to give a f*ck about, so change is as simple as choosing to give a f*ck about something else. It really is that simple. It’s just isn’t easy.

If you want to change how you see your problems, you have to change what you value and/or how you measure failure/success.

Being wrong opens us up to the possibility of change. Being wrong brings the opportunity for growth.

Uncertainty is the root of all progress and all growth. As the old adage goes, the man who believes he knows everything learns nothing. We cannot learn anything without first not knowing something.

The key to living a good life is not giving a f*ck about more; it’s giving a f*ck about less, giving a f*ck about only what is true and immediate and important.

It turns out that adversity and failure are actually useful and even necessary for developing strong-minded and successful adults.

You may salivate at the thought of a problem-free life full of everlasting happiness and eternal compassion, but back here on earth the problems never cease


We can be truly successful only at something we’re willing to fail

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Improvement at anything is based on thousands of tiny failures, and the magnitude of your success is based on how many times you’ve failed at something. If someone is better than you at something, then it’s likely because she has failed at it more than you have. If someone is worse than you, it’s likely because he hasn’t been through all of the painful learning experiences you have.

Joy doesn’t just sprout out of the ground like daisies and rainbows. Real, serious, lifelong fulfillment and meaning have to be earned through the choosing and managing of our struggles.


The above quotes from The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck by Mark Manson contain a powerful message about the importance of prioritizing the things that truly matter in our lives. With his candid and unapologetic voice, Mark Manson challenges us to embrace our imperfections, face our fears head-on, and let go of the trivial things that hold us back.

“* An Irish good-bye is when you leave a party or gathering without telling anyone. Highly recommended.”

“Not giving a fuck—crucially—means releasing yourself from the worry, anxiety, fear, and guilt associated with saying no, allowing you to stop spending time you don’t have with people you don’t like doing things you don’t want to do. Not”

“I socialized with people I did not like in order to appear benevolent; I performed jobs that were beneath me in order to appear helpful; I ate things that disgusted me in order to appear gracious. In short, I gave way too many fucks for far, far too long. This

“you need to consider outcomes before committing to giving your fucks. Your time, energy, and/or money spent should result in greater joy for you.”

“In our society, Sorry! is used as shorthand for anything from "I'm not really sorry, I', just saying that to smooth over whatever I just did/am about to do to you" all the way to a nail-biting "Oh shit, what have I done???”




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